
By: Suzy Cochran
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Make Time ⏰ Not Excuses!
Busyness does not equal importance. Today, be intentional in your relationships. Make time to spend with your partner that you love and care about. Love is a choice. Love is a verb.
Being intentional in your relationships is about more than just going through the motions; it’s about actively choosing to invest time, energy, and love into the person who matter most to you. Love isn’t something that just happens. It’s a choice—a deliberate decision to care for, support, and prioritize those around you.
When you choose to love someone, you’re making a commitment to be there for them, not just when it’s convenient, but especially when it’s not. Love as a verb means that your actions speak louder than words. It’s about showing up, being present, and making an effort to connect, even in the midst of busy schedules and life’s demands.
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to let time slip away, but being intentional means you make the time. It’s about scheduling that dinner, making that call, or simply setting aside a few moments each day to connect. It doesn’t have to be grand gestures; sometimes, the most meaningful expressions of love are found in the small, everyday actions—like a text to check in, a hug when someone needs it, or listening when someone wants to talk.
Being intentional also means recognizing that relationships require nurturing. Just as a plant needs water and sunlight to thrive, relationships need care and attention to grow and stay healthy. It’s about understanding the importance of quality time and making sure that those you care about feel valued and appreciated.
Love as a choice means you decide, every day, to engage in those acts of love that keep your relationships strong. It’s about choosing patience when you’re frustrated, understanding when you’re hurt, and forgiveness when you’ve been wronged. It’s about remembering that the people you love are worth the effort, and that the time you spend with them is an investment in something truly precious.
In a relationship, especially when you have children, it’s crucial to strike a balance between your roles as a parent and a partner. While your children will always be a priority, it’s essential to remember that a healthy relationship requires attention and effort. If you find that you can’t make time for your partner and consistently prioritize your kids at the expense of your relationship, it might be worth reconsidering whether a relationship is the right step. Love demands time and commitment, and using children as an excuse to neglect your partner can lead to a disconnect that harms both the relationship and the family as a whole. Ultimately, if you truly love someone, you’ll find ways to make time for them, even amidst the demands of parenthood.
In the end, being intentional in your relationships is about making love a priority. It’s about taking the time to be with the people you care about, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. Love is not just a feeling; it’s a series of choices and actions that, when done consistently, build deep, meaningful, and lasting connections.